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Foster Adoptions
From a news story by
CNN San Francisco Reporter Rusty Dornin
November 2002
It's not Mary Webster's birthday, but it's just as special. On this
day, foster parents Anja and Peter Webster will officially become mom
and dad. And nine-year-old Tamara will gain a sister.
Two years ago this week, the Websters took Mary into their home.
Anja Webster says, "This baby was basically placed in my arms,
and she looked up at me and smiled, and there was no doubt in my mind
that she was going to be part of our family at the time. It was wonderful."
Wonderful except Mary's birth mother was fighting drug addiction, and
the Webster's were never sure if the birth mother would legally reclaim
the toddler.
Peter Webster says, "It's like dying the death of a thousand cuts
each time you go back. There's another extension and as a foster parent
you have no legal rights; you're simply the custodian of the child.
They're very happy the child is cared for and looked after. But they
pay no attention to the fact you get emotionally involved."
The birth mother's rights were revoked. This is the day the Webster's
will sign the papers and finalize the adoption.
The Judge says, "I am going to go through a few forms".
Judge Brenda Harbin Forte has finalized thousands of adoptions. A ceremony
she says that never fails to touch her emotionally especially during
times like these.
Judge Brenda Harbin Forte says, 'There's still times where people are
showing the capacity to reach out to someone else and say I want to
protect you. I want to make this world a better place for you, and I
want to do what I can to make sure that you grow up to be a safe, happy
and healthy child, and that's what this day is all about."
Signatures on a piece of paper, a formality that abolished the fears
for Andrea and Charles Douglass adopting 3 year old Landess.
Andrea Douglass says, "I saw fireworks when she said it, yeah,
it's finally here and he's finally ours and yeah. This proceeding made
the difference cuz you know definitely."
For the Websters, as well [there were] feelings of anxiety until this
very moment.
Judge Forte says, "Then having examined you and I am reassured
that you will be good adoptive parents and that you will treat the child
as your own and take care of this child, the petition for adoption is
hereby granted."
Happy adoption day, Mary Webster.
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